X is very straightforward and an intelligent person who has done well in life thus far. X knows about my academic background, my GMAT score (remember, below national average). This person also knows I'm gunning for a top 10/20 school. I've always had a very good feeling that X thinks I'm being a bit way too ambitious. Well recently, X made it clear by telling me that, although I am working my butt off, given my academic performance in undergraduate school, and my GMAT score I'm being a bit unrealistic and setting myself up for failure. X suggested that I stop building up such high expectations and unnecessary pressure/stress and try to get admitted into into a local school where I can realistically get into.
On one hand this b-school journey is not only about my career growth, but also about changing for the better and proving myself that I can for once do well - be above average compared to my old self, and work hard to get what I want. On other hand, here's someone who is very intelligent, respected, practical and obviously successful warning me to understand what I can do (or can not do). X has a good track record of being right so this got me seriously thinking. It's really got me questioning whether I'm just being full of it and not being true to myself. Some might see that as a sign of immaturity, but I think it's about stepping back for a minute and assessing the playing field.
At what point do you realistically say, "Hey, this isn't for me" or "I'm probably not cut out for this"
